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Choosing Words: Supporting Our Children on Their Language Journey

Our Grade 2 children are right in the middle of their language journey. Many are learning in more than one language at the same time. That’s a big job. They’re working out what words mean, how to use them correctly, and how their words affect the people around them.

Mistakes are part of this process. Children will sometimes use words in the wrong way, choose words that don’t quite fit, or repeat language they’ve heard without fully understanding it. That’s normal. It’s also something we do as adults. We still misunderstand words, use them out of context, or say things we later wish we’d phrased differently.

What matters most is how we respond.

As adults, our role isn’t to shut language down or react strongly every time a child gets it wrong. Our role is to slow things down and talk about words. What does that word actually mean? How might it make someone feel? Is there a better word or phrase we could use instead?

These small conversations make a big difference. They help children build vocabulary, understand nuance, and learn that words carry meaning and power. They also learn that being kind and caring doesn’t mean being silent, it means choosing language thoughtfully.

You might hear a word at home that doesn’t sit right. That’s a good moment for a calm chat rather than a quick correction. Try asking, “What do you think that word means?” or “What were you trying to say there?” Then model an alternative. Children learn best when they hear better options, not just what not to say.

At school, we’re doing the same. We talk openly about words, practise choosing language that fits the situation, and remind students that learning language is ongoing. There’s room to grow, adjust, and try again.

Language development isn’t about getting it right every time. It’s about building understanding over time, with support, patience, and plenty of conversation. When school and home work together on this, children feel safe to experiment with language and learn how to use their words with care.

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